Self-criticism is a type of awareness and like anything, must be kept in balance to serve its purpose to make better choices!
Awareness, Choices, Emotions, Growth, Mindfulness, Personal Resonsibility, Positive Choices

The Good and Bad of Self-Criticism

Self-criticism is a common aspect of our personality that most people will wrestle with in life. I certainly do, and let’s be honest…it can be brutal. While I believe self-criticism helps keep me dialed into life assessment, including my faults and limitations, it’s a double-edged sword that can be disastrous if I don’t keep it… Continue reading The Good and Bad of Self-Criticism

Dream. Plan. Action.
Awareness, Choices, Growth, Motivation, Personal Resonsibility, Positive Choices, Success

Setting Effective Goals is Key in Promoting Our Success

Setting goals helps us move through daily life with purpose and thrive! Studies show that when effectively setting challenging goals we’re more likely to stay motivated and persistent in completing our tasks. Why more challenging goals? Higher goals drive us to step up with our personal best, as determined by Doctors of Industrial Psychology, and… Continue reading Setting Effective Goals is Key in Promoting Our Success

Values provide clarity even in the darkest and most chaotic of times!
Authentic Living, Choices, Growth, Lifestyle Transformation, Mindfulness, Personal Resonsibility, Positive Choices, Positive Living

Nudged Out of Neutral

There’s an unexpected and strange happening as we walk the path of growth and healing. What once sat well with us, no longer does. The disruption, chaos, or discomfort that didn’t bother us before, now causes irritation, frustration, and anger. And we may even find times we can’t understand the sudden sadness, resentment, or fear… Continue reading Nudged Out of Neutral

Assessment is a crucial part to staying on our intended course.
Authentic Living, Choices, Choosing Balance, Growth, Peaceful Living, Personal Resonsibility, Positive Choices

Why We Need Outward Assessment for Living a More Peaceful and Satisfying Life

Don't allow shame to control your choices. Take time to neutralize it's influence and take charge of choices that nourish your spirit and growth!
Choices, Controlling our Emotions, Fear, Growth, Peaceful Living, Personal Resonsibility, Positive Choices

How Fear of Shame Influences our Choices

Shame is a powerful tool and millions of people use it to control others. It's oppressive, and it exploits our desperate need to avoid embarrassment or social retaliation. It can hold us captive in a state of fear of humiliation and distress with no hope or belief in our ability to recover. I've been on… Continue reading How Fear of Shame Influences our Choices

Give all your focus to the number one, most important "thing" you simply can live without and watch it THRIVE!
Authentic Living, Awareness, Choices, Choosing Balance, Holistic Life Balance, Personal Resonsibility, Positive Choices

Priority is a Singular Word, Not Plural

I have no idea when priority, meaning “prime concern, first concern, matter of greatest importance” and “a thing that is regarded as more important than another” or the British definition of “the right to take precedence or to proceed before others”, became accepted as a plural word. By definition, and for all practical reason, only… Continue reading Priority is a Singular Word, Not Plural

Self-Care is a restorative element vital to help us thrive in life.
Awareness, Choices, Choosing Balance, Daily Balance, Happiness, Holistic Life Balance, Personal Resonsibility, Positive Choices, Self-Care

Taking Time for Things that Bring us Joy Each and Every Day.

Between the many "to-dos", and "must-dos", and "have to-dos", it's important to remember to take time to do something, simply for the joy of it! Joy is a vital ingredient we must deliberately add to our day. It can feel like a magic pill, a breath of fresh air, a warm hug and lovingly says,… Continue reading Taking Time for Things that Bring us Joy Each and Every Day.

Awareness, Choices, Daily Balance, Growth, Mindfulness, Motivation, Personal Resonsibility, Positive Choices, Positive Living

A Simple Intention to Get the Ball Rolling

Sometimes it's way too easy to feel we're too far behind, so overwhelmed, or so down, that it seems impossible to get ahead, find balance or climb up from the down. Enough with beating ourselves up! Reality check...it's not just us. Everyone has times like these in life. It's a part of life that appears… Continue reading A Simple Intention to Get the Ball Rolling

Choices, Emotions, Growth, Mindfulness, Motivation, Personal Resonsibility, Positive Choices

Just Keep Showing Up Through Good or Bad Times

Life is about learning and growth, and some days the best we can do is simply show up. Some days, our "best" feels worse than not good enough, it feels pathetic. But, that doesn't have to be the end of our story. What can we do on a "bad" day? Continue to show up! Just… Continue reading Just Keep Showing Up Through Good or Bad Times

Taking life one moment at a time.
Awareness, Choices, Growth, Mindfulness, Personal Resonsibility, Positive Choices

We Can Only Improve Our Tomorrow, Today

There's an innate drive to improve our lives and our greatest power of influence lies in the present moment. Strong values, clarity in our goals and dedication to reaching those goals is the key to making optimal choices each and every moment. This is how we shape our tomorrow.