Choices, Growth, Personal Resonsibility, Quotes

“Nosce Te Ipsum” – Know Thyself, When Listening to Advice

There are times in our life where we enter unfamiliar territory. New ideas. New goals. New challenges. And, a lot of new concerns usually accompanied by confusion and insecurity. When I find myself in a place of transition, I seek information from books, websites, and certainly advice from someone with reliable first-hand experience. While it’s good to gather information, it’s crucial what we do with it.

Absorb what is useful. Discard what is not. Add what is uniquely your own.”

Bruce Lee

Although there is no one-way to handle who’s advice to follow, there is a critical box that’s good to check which can endorse our decision. Nosce te ipsum. Know thyself. In knowing ourselves, we recognize our strengths and weaknesses, our beliefs, our priorities, and our daily responsibilities and can use this knowledge to create standards to measure the validity of any advice we’re given and determine if we believe it’s what’s best for us!

Advice is merely the personal account of how someone else has chosen and their results based on their personal circumstances and events. It’s information, ideas, instruction, suggestions and tips, and ultimately, it’s data from one person’s experience. Remember, no two journeys are the same and there are no guarantees of the same outcome. We’re hearing a recount of their story and we’re free to follow their steps, head the opposite direction or blend a little bit of various suggestions to create a path unique to us.

At the end of the day, we need to trust our intuition and make a decision we can live with because we alone suffer the consequences. I’d rather live life fully and courageously on my own terms, for better or worse, than to follow someone else’s advice because I doubted myself. I prefer to say “I did my best!” and reap the growth from life-experience.

Never regret. If it’s good, it’s wonderful. If it’s bad, it’s experience.”

Victoria Holt

Keep it Simple,

Just Teri

9 thoughts on ““Nosce Te Ipsum” – Know Thyself, When Listening to Advice”

  1. There is something to be said for experiencing things ourselves, first-hand. Advice is helpful but cannot replace the learning that takes place when we do for ourselves and experience the outcome. Great thoughts, as always! Xx

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    1. Sage advice from a dedicated teacher ❣️❣️Experience reaches us at a fundamental level 😃

      Advice gives me some ideas on the variables so I have an idea of the option/outcome scenarios that may surface so I try to focus on what I’m truly seeking in the first place 💗

      Thanks Collette ❤️🤗

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    1. Thanks Janet. Yeah, something new has me seeking Information and advice, but if I’ve ever chosen what didn’t feel right for me, it didn’t work out for the best. You’re right. We’re all so different and as a result it wasn’t what was best for me 😉

      Trusting our judgment can be scary but I believe being true to ourselves takes us to the lessons we need to live our best life. (Even the bad choices)❤️🤗

      Always grateful for your input ❣️

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  2. It is so true, we must know ourself. Our strength and weakness, especially when taking advice. We are unique and so too our circumstances, no matter how similar they seem to be, they aren’t because we are different.

    Great post and advise.

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